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Ryan Gogarty, LMFT #126085
(925) 335-6778
Child, Teen, and Young Adult Therapy
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Wait It Out
Connecting with a teen can feel like navigating a maze. Teens often need space to process emotions before they are ready to talk. Parents who rush conversations or push for immediate solutions may find their efforts met with resistance or silence. Waiting to connect when a teen is ready, on their own time, creates a foundation for stronger communication and trust. This approach models patience and allows teens to regulate their feelings, making later conversations more constr
Ryan G
Jul 83 min read


Building Trust: A Strategic Approach to Supporting Teens in Therapy While Navigating Complex Challenges
Opening up to a therapist can feel like an uphill battle for many teens. When low self-esteem, depression, and anxiety are involved, these feelings often hide behind behaviors like lying, self-aggrandizing, avoiding new experiences, or even verbal aggression toward parents. As a parent, it’s natural to want to fix everything quickly, but healing and trust take time. Understanding this slow process and adopting a strategic approach can make a significant difference in your tee
Ryan G
Jun 293 min read


Nurturing Trust in Teen Relationships Through Open Communication and Curiosity
Trust between parents and teenagers can feel fragile. Teens often guard their thoughts and feelings, fearing judgment or misunderstanding. Yet, building a strong connection during these years is crucial for their emotional well-being and development. The key lies in creating a safe space where teens feel comfortable sharing openly. This happens when parents approach conversations with non-judgmental curiosity and genuine interest, rather than criticism or assumptions. This po
Ryan G
Jun 94 min read


Setting and Holding Boundaries and Why it is Necessary for Growth
As parents, we want our children to feel happy and hate to see them struggle. However, sometimes in the pursuit of this, we can...
Ryan G
Dec 12, 20242 min read
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